Love Messages To Say I Love You
Say it Or Not?
Expressing your love messages is a necessity especially if you want a lasting relationship. Communication especially between people in love is not just a way to pass on significant and up to date information. Communicating to your special someone is a way to create emotional and intimate attachment. There are two ways on how you could get your message of love conveyed to another – verbal and non-verbal communication.
Verbal Communication
Saying the right words is the key to maintaining and sustaining a healthy and loving relationship. It is true arguments and disagreements are part and parcel of committing yourself to someone. The secret is to agree to disagree. Couples who are not mindful and careful about the words they say could cause permanent damage to your relationship. Pick your words carefully so as not to hurt the core identity of your partner. Disagree but do not use words to retaliate and hurt your partner's feelings. Criticise but never make it destructive. Constructive criticism is necessary and it could help your partner correct his mistakes and failings. Destructive criticisms ruin a person and could build walls instead of bridges.
Non Verbal Communication
Expressing your love and affection towards your partner need not always manifest through words. There are a lot of non-verbal ways to communicate your love and strengthen your relationship. A simple and loving gaze into your partner's eyes could mean the world to them. It affirms your love and speaks a million words in silence. You could hold, massage or stroke his hands or give him a loving and big hug when you are happy or facing a problem. This shows that you are through life together and nothing could set you apart. At times, non-verbal ways to communicate your love messages are even much effective in certain situations.
Love Messages and Red Flags
The early stages of your relationship may be the most crucial ones. If you are 100% sure that this relationship is for keeps, there are tons of ways to make it work. One of the most challenging ordeals in today's relationships is on how to get your love messages through. Although there are lots of media to use for relaying messages, true communication does not take place. Hence, relationships often crumble and fail. How do you keep your commitment strong and time-proof?
There are common red flags in a relationship to watch out for. When this occurs, you may have failed in one or more aspects in your love. Or your love messages may have failed to get delivered:
- Lack of verbal and nonverbal communication. Words and gestures are important in founding a relationship. You need to communicate and express what you think and feel. If you are already out of touch and you could not keep a conversation with your partner, it's time to hit SOS.
- Controlling and manipulative behaviour. One or both of the partners may perpetrate this tendency. Controlling and manipulating your partner or spouse is quite destructive. This may lead to a weak and eventually failed relationship. Let the other person be independent and unique even if it means not in line with what you want.
- Too much jealousy. This is not only about third party relationship or affairs. Sometimes jealousy could extend to work or outside relationships such as family and friends. The key to resolving this dilemma is trust and acceptance of another.
It is highly important to build a relationship based on love, trust and open communication. This is why getting your love messages through is a necessity. Communication is a luxury not everyone could afford these days. It doesn't mean you cannot work hard to earn it.
Love Messages: Feeling More Loved
No matter how other people may deny it, everyone wants to love and be loved in return. Nothing is more painful than an unrequited love. Hence, if you want to feel and enjoy being more loved by someone, you need to be extra sensitive for love messages they send along your way. There are other ways how you could nurture your relationship and make it work!
- Initiate meaningful communication. Create and establish a really close and strong love relationship. Even if you are yet dating, communication is an essential element. It is not just communication though. Make extra effort to make the conversation more engaging and meaningful to the other person.
- Be authentic and real. You could make a lot of efforts toward the other person but if it doesn't come from your heart, it is totally useless. You have to be sincere and genuine about the things you do. Only truthful and honest love and affection could be reciprocated by the same love.
- Be a good listener. If you want to feel more loved, make sure the other person feels the same way. Master the art of listening and you will never go wrong. Oftentimes you need to make the other person feel important through intently listening to what they say. Pay attention and remember significant details they share with you.
- Find common grounds and invest on it. Every relationship has differences as well as common denominators. Determine similar interests and build your relationship on it. A great foundation is on how you compromise and meet halfway to make it work.
Sending love messages is just one of the innumerable ways to make a great relationship. Happy and healthy relationships are the ones which could make you love and feel more loved in return. Work for it because it doesn't just happen.
Get yourself in the mood of love! Love has never been smooth sailing and that is why so many love stories are told throughout Man's history.
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As soon as you leave, my eye never stopped crying for you. I miss you more each day. My heart never stopped pumping for you. My breath just keeps lessening each day that you are away. My mind just keeps calling you, my lips keeps uttering your name. Come back soon or I will die without you. Every drop of my tears is so precious but I cannot stop them because I know, they are crying for the right person. Come back to me baby I need you in my life. Need your caressing; I need your warm embrace.
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I just thought someone whispered your name to me today just to find out that when I turn my back, I noticed that I was all alone in a place. I realized that it was my heart telling me how much I miss you and how much I really care about you. My heart for you will never break because my smile for you will never fade. I have a love for you that will never end. I love you with a love that meant to last; I am here for you until the end of time.
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There are times when it can be so hard to find someone who will truly love you, but it is harder to find someone whom you will truly love. Love is about finding the right person and being able to reciprocate each other's effort. When the time comes you find that someone, don't ever let go because it might take you another lifetime to find that person again. Destiny has its course of making people bump into each other without them knowing that they are the ones meant to be. It's hard to tell whom you will end up with so when you found him/her, treasure every moment that counts.
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My dearest sweet,
I am so happy you are back in my life after a long time of being away. I am looking forward of being with you again as we rest together in bed late at night. I missed everything about you especially the warmth of your hug, your sweet and sounding laugh on my ears and the way you cuddle me to bed. I hope this time there will be no goodbyes for us because you just don't know how hard it was to live without you for some time. Sleeping and spending whole night without you is just like walking on the edge of nowhere.
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Dear,
You have been a friend to me for quite some time now. As we spent each other every day, it seems like I was in heaven during those times because of new things that I discovered about you. I love to sit back and just listen to your voice and stare at your eyes. As I do this I fall in love with you so many times. If only I can tell you how much you mean to me and how much I love you more each day, I would do that but I can't. I cannot tell you everything I want because I am just so scared to lose you.
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Dear Love,
I just don't know how to start with this letter but I want you to know that from the very first time we speak with each other I know you were the one for me. At first I don't know what word to say to you, I was so nervous until we met in person. Everything just seems to be so natural as if we have known each other for so many years now. It's hard for me to tell you how I feel because my past relationship doesn't really work well.
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Dear,
It has been a long time of getting to know each other but we are really deeply crazy about each other. I was wondering if you believe in soul mate because the things we shared seems like we are meant for each other. We both believe in God and His capacity to make someone for everyone. I don't believe in destiny because I know God made you for men and me for you. Here I am confessing my heart out to you because I want you to know how special you are to me.